We've come to live in a world obsessed with fleeting moments, a world that often glorifies youth while sidelining the old. It’s a fast-paced culture that impatiently scrolls through wisdom to get to the next viral sensation. And yet, in African communities, both on the continent and in the diaspora, the elders are not just remembered; they're revered. Why? Because they are living libraries, chronicles of trials, triumphs, and traditions.
More Than a Seat at the Table
In Western societies, it's not uncommon for elders to be relegated to nursing homes or forgotten in day-to-day activities. But in African communities, their role extends far beyond ceremonial appearances at family gatherings. Elders are consulted for every major decision, be it marriage, land disputes, or community projects. They’re not just seat fillers; they are the cornerstone upon which societies are built.
A Tapestry of Wisdom and Culture
James Baldwin once said, "You think your pain and your heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world, but then you read." African elders are often the first 'read' we encounter in life. They introduce us to the cultural tapestry of our roots through folklore, rituals, and intimate one-on-one discussions that no book can offer. They make sure that the wealth of ancestral wisdom is not lost in translation. They are the custodians of oral history, and in a world increasingly dominated by screens, this is an invaluable resource.
Power in Legacy
But it isn’t merely about the past. No, it's also about shaping the future. How many times have we heard the phrase, "I stand on the shoulders of giants"? Those giants are often the elders who paved the way, who faced insurmountable challenges to grant us the privileges we have today. Acknowledging their role is not just a gesture of respect; it's a form of empowerment, a recognition that we’re part of an unbroken chain of human endeavor and triumph.
The Disconnect and the Bridge
However, let's be brutally honest—there's a widening gap. As African youths become increasingly westernized, the bridge between generations starts to show cracks. Here's where conscious effort kicks in. We must take it upon ourselves to engage, to consult, to LISTEN. To ensure that the chasm is bridged, not widened. And yes, it is a two-way street. Elders too have the responsibility to adapt, to understand the unique challenges of the 21st-century African youth, many of whom are navigating dual identities in foreign lands.
The Gift of Time
Time waits for no one, and no one understands this better than the elders. Their role in the community is not just as repositories of knowledge, but as reminders of our ephemeral existence. They teach us the value of time, not through platitudes but through lived experience. This gift, if accepted, sets us on a path of meaningful existence.
We stand at a pivotal moment where the need for intergenerational dialogue has never been more urgent. We are the custodians of the future, but to shape it, we must draw from the well of the past. Elders in African communities are not relics of a bygone era; they are the roots that sustain the tree of community. Without roots, the tree doesn't just falter; it collapses.
To uphold our communities, we must uphold our elders. Only then can we bridge the generations and ensure a future as rich as our past.